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TodayshowanchorAl Rokerand his wife, ABC News senior national affairs correspondentDeborah Roberts, found love on the set of the morning show.
The couple first met atTodayin 1990 and tied the knot five years later. Since then, they’ve celebrated several milestones together, including gracing the cover ofPEOPLE’s first-ever Love Issuein February 2021.
“He’s a real romantic,” Roberts said of her husband. “When I travel, I open my suitcase and I find one or two notes in there that he’s slipped in, or in my purse. ‘Have a great day. I’m thinking of you.’ Or an Emily Dickinson sonnet or something. And I’m just like, ‘Oh my gosh.’ It just touches me. And he thinks that way all the time.”
Here’s everything to know about Al Roker and Deborah Roberts' relationship.
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Roker and Robertsmet in 1990when Roberts joined NBC’sTodayas a correspondent. “Al was so sweet,” she told PEOPLE in 1999. “He showed me pictures of his daughter and talked about his family.”
Although they met two years earlier, Roker and Roberts didn’t go on their first date until 1992. (Roker was previously married to his first wife, Alice Bell, from 1984 until they separated in 1992).
TheTodayanchor later explained how he landed a date with Roberts onThe Kelly Clarkson Show, sharing that Roberts had asked him to keep an eye on her apartment while she was in Barcelona covering the Summer Olympics for NBC.
“A day before she got back from her trip, I stocked her pantry, I stocked her refrigerator and left some flowers on the table and a note, ‘Welcome home,’ " Roker said. “And then I got my first date with her a week later.”
The weathercaster proposed to Roberts on Jan. 1, 1994. He recalled the proposal to PEOPLE, saying, “Deborah was getting a little annoyed that it hadn’t happened over the holidays. We had a chat, ‘So when will this happen?’ And I said, ‘Before Groundhog Day.’ "
He kept his word, proposing to her on New Year’s Day during a business trip to Arizona as they were staring off into the Grand Canyon. “I thought, what a great place,” he said. “On the rim of the Grand Canyon. And if she says, ‘No,’ one of us isn’t coming back.”
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The couple wedin front of family and famous friends at Manhattan’s St. Thomas Episcopal Church, withBarbara WaltersandKatie Couricamong the guests.
In September 2020, Roker shared a videoon Instagramfrom the couple’s wedding day. “A #happy25thanniversary to @debrobertsabc who helps me a better #father #brother #person and challenges me to do better each and every day. #thankyou and #iloveyou,” he captioned the video.
The pair welcomed daughterLeila Ruthon Nov. 17, 1998. Leila was the first child for Roberts and the second for Roker, who shares daughterCourtneyfrom his previous marriage.
In January 2020, Roker spoke withTodayabout how his son makes him want to be a better person, saying, “As a lot of parents who have kids who have special needs [know], they can try your patience. Not that they mean to, or anything like that. I look at him and all that he does and I want to be a better person.”
On Dec. 14, 2018, Roberts shared a selfie of her, Roker and their son Nickon Instagramto commemorate the 40th year of Roker working at NBC. “40 years at NBC @alroker How’s it possible??!! Congrats dear heart!!” she captioned the photo.
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Roker opened up in an issue ofGuidepostsmagazine, perToday, about parenting Nick with Roberts.
“Do I get frustrated with my son sometimes? You bet,” Roker wrote in a personal essay. “But then I remember my dad, how understanding he was. And Deborah reminds me that I have to show my son not only that I love him but that I like him as well. More than that, I admire him.”
Rokershared on theTodayshowthat he was diagnosed with prostate cancer.
“It’s a good news–bad news kind of thing,” he said. “Good news is we caught it early. Not-great news is that it’s a little aggressive, so I’m going to be taking some time off to take care of this.”
Roker shared that Roberts was not at the appointment when he was diagnosed.
“I feel badly because I didn’t tell Deborah to come with me,” he said. “In hindsight, boy I wish I’d told her to come. … She was upset. And once she got past that, the reporter in her kinda took over. And then she’s been at everything ever since.”
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Rokershared on Instagramon Nov. 12, 2020, that he underwent surgery for prostate cancer and that he was home recovering.
“Relieved to let you all know that my #prostatecancer surgery is done and back home. A big shoutout to everyone at the #josierobertsonsurgerycenter and so appreciate all the thoughts and wishes from our viewers and the wonderful care packages from my co-workers. Hope to see you all soon,” he shared on Instagram.
Roberts alsoadded on her Instagram, “Let the healing begin. I am so in awe of this guy and his indomitable spirit. So blessed and grateful for avalanche of love, prayers and support for @alroker #gratitude.”
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One week after his prostate cancer surgery, Rokershared onTodaythat his pathology report found no evidence of cancer beyond the prostate.
“It was this great relief,” Roker toldToday. “For a first start, this is terrific news. I’m going to be up for — and a lot of people who live with cancer — up for lifelong testing to make sure this doesn’t come back.”
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The couple shared more about theirmarriageand their 25th wedding anniversary in an interview for PEOPLE’s first-ever Love Issue.
“He does things like he sprinkles little love notes, little cards throughout my life,” Roberts explained of her husband’s romantic gestures, adding, “Sometimes there’s a little card next to the coffee maker that might say something encouraging or sweet or impish or fun.
Roberts and theTodayco-host love to cook, and they started sharing their culinary quests with their followers on Instagram. The day after Valentine’s Day 2021, the couple hosted anInstagram Live eventwhere they prepared a roast chicken together.
“Chicken is cooking @alroker shares his perfect roast chicken recipe! Come see the final product!” Roberts captioned her post.
Roker and Roberts' daughterLeila graduated from collegein May 2021. Roberts celebrated the accomplishment on Instagram with aphotoof the couple smiling with their children. “It’s a day we have dreamed of and cannot believe is here. Bursting with pride doesn’t begin to describe how we feel about our sweet little girl who has become a young woman and now college graduate,” she captioned the post.
Two years into the pandemic, Roberts discussed with PEOPLE how the experienceimpacted her relationship with Roker.
“We weren’t used to this extended kind of 24/7 time together and [we] felt listless,” she shared. “There was tension at first as we settled into this new reality.”
Roberts added, “It was a reminder of my own romantic journey with my husband and how we formed a tighter and more precious bond during the last 24 months. I marveled at how Al jumped in to take care of me and his family and I fell deeper for him. … And seeing other couples feel this was validating.”
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The couple celebrated their son’s high school graduation in June 2022. Both parents shared tributes to Nick on social media to mark the milestone.
“And just like that! Nick Roker: High School graduate from the [Aaron School],” Roker captionedphotosof Nick as a toddler and a high school graduate. “We are sooo proud of this young man.”
A few months later, the pairdropped Nick off at collegeto start his freshman year.
In late November, Rokergave fans an update on his healthafter he was absent fromTodayfor two weeks. The anchor revealed on Instagram that he had been hospitalized for blood clots in his legs and lungs, but was “fortunate to be getting terrific medical care and on the way to recovery.”
Roberts posted a message of support on her own profile,writing, “You are the shining sun and star in our family @alroker Love you so much. Can’t wait til you’re back home and feeling like your old self again.”
A few days later, Roberts shared another update onInstagramas the couple celebrated Thanksgiving. “Thursday thankfulness and then some. Holding on tight and cherishing this moment like never before,” she wrote, in part, along with a photo of her and Roker with their kids.
The holiday marked the first time in 27 years that Roker missed the annualMacy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade. Roker shared asnapof himself taking in the parade at home while supporting his co-hosts,Hoda KotbandSavannah Guthrie. Roberts shared a similarphotoon her own page, along with the caption, “Thankful beyond words. Grateful for all the support and well wishes from every corner.”
On Nov. 30, PEOPLE reported thatRoker was rushed back to the hospitalone day after his Thanksgiving release.
Al “had to go to the hospital in an ambulance and [Roker’s wife Deborah Roberts] was locked out of her car and couldn’t get inside it. The car malfunctioned. She couldn’t get her phone or any of her belongings,” a source told PEOPLE.
Both Roker and Roberts marked the weather anchor’s hospital homecoming withheartfelt Instagram posts.
The belovedTodayshow starshared a photoof himself smiling in his family’s kitchen along with a caption that read: “Home! So incredibly grateful to family, friends, medical folks, @todayshow family and all your thoughts and prayers.” In the carousel post, Roker also included a snap of him and Roberts as well as a group picture featuring their daughter, Leila.
Roberts shared asimilar photoof her, Roker and Leila in their kitchen. “Home. Where the heart lives,” she captioned the snap.
Roberts talked withEntertainment Tonightabout the challenges of caring for Roker through his life-threatening health crisis in late 2022.
“I think a lot of people don’t realize that — and I never realized that — thatbeing a caregiver is really taxing, exhausting, frightening, all of those things,” she told the outlet. “I never went through anything like this. And I hope I’ll never do it again.”
TheABC Newscorrespondent added: “It’s tough. I’m still kind of, I think, recuperating. I’m still kind of tired. I’m still mentally exhausted, but you know what, I’m grateful and just trying to just bask in the moment and just be happy that he’s well.”
Roker hadknee replacement surgery on May 9. Per the doctor’s orders, he was “up and walking” the very next day.
Two weeks later, Roberts gave her followers an update regarding Roker’s recovery.
“As many of you know he had a knee re-replacement, so a knee that had been replaced many many years ago had problems and had to be re-replaced,” she explained on Instagram Live. “It was a harder surgery, so it’s a little bit harder to snap back from, but he’s doing pretty well,moving a little slowly.”
Al Roker and Deborah Roberts on Day Thirteen of the 2023 US Open.Matthew Stockman/Getty
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The couple attended the women’s singles final match betweenCoco Gauffand Aryna Sabalenkaat at the2023 US Openin New York. While there, they mingled with a slew of celebrities, includingMariska HargitayandHoda Kotb.
“What an amazing time witnessing Coco Gauff win her first major title …the US Women’s singles championship at age 19. First teen to win since Serena did so at age 17,” Roberts wrote onInstagram. “She and Aryna Sabalenka played and slayed for 2 hours to a jubilant and jittery crowd.”
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OnMother’s Day, Roker and the couple’s son, Nick, treated Roberts to a special day of activities. The trio had brunch at New York City’s Café Boulud and saw singer Kathleen Battle perform at The Metropolitan Opera.
As the couple celebrated 29 years of marriage, Roker shared a photo of him and Roberts on their wedding day alongside a recent photo of them together in anInstagrampost.
“When you see youwhat I looked like 29 years ago, it’s even more amazing @debrobertsabc married me,” he joked. “Here’s to a woman who has questionable taste and even more questionable eyesight.”
Over 30 years after Roker and Bell went their separate ways, his ex-wife died at the age of 77, their daughter Courtney shared in anInstagrampost.
Alongside several photos of Bell, Courtney wrote, “She was my mother,my heart, and the most loving grandmother to Sky. I was with her for her last breath, and I will carry her love with me always.”
Roker was absent fromTodaythat morning before the news of Bell’s death had broken publicly.
source: people.com