All About Lucille Ball and Desi Arnaz's Children and Grandchildren

Mar. 15, 2025

Lucille Ball and Desi Arnaz with their two children, Desi Jr. and Lucie. ; Lucille Ball and her granddaughter Katharine “Kate” Luckinbill.Photo:Hulton Archive/Getty ; Lucie Arnaz Instagram

Hulton Archive/Getty ; Lucie Arnaz Instagram

Lucille Ball and Desi Arnaz’s legacy lives on through their children, Lucie Arnaz andDesi Arnaz Jr., and their grandchildren, Julia, Haley, Simon, Joseph and Kate.

The comedic duo’s journey to parenthood began in 1951 with the birth of Lucie Désirée Arnaz. “They were dying to have a family as soon as they got married,” Lucie toldThe Desert Sunin 2018 of her parents, who wed on Nov. 30, 1940.

However, it didn’t happen right away. In an interview withThe Washington Starin 1980, Ball shared that she had two miscarriages while trying to get pregnant during the first decade of their marriage.

“For me, the birth of a child, it was a miracle,” she told the newspaper about welcoming her firstborn. “I couldn’t believe it.”

The pair’s second child, Desiderio “Desi” Alberto Arnaz Jr., arrived 18 months in 1953, to much public fanfare.

According toEntertainment Weekly, Ball was scheduled for a c-section and welcomed her son the same night that her character, Lucy Ricardo, gave birth to her fictional son, Little Ricky.

For all of the actors' success, their family mattered most. “Just having a career, that would be very boring,” Ball toldThe Washington Star. “The best part of my life is having children. They keep you young.”

Here’s everything to know about Lucille Ball and Desi Arnaz’s children, Lucie Arnaz and Desi Arnaz Jr., and grandchildren: Julia, Haley, Simon, Joseph and Kate.

Lucie Désirée Arnaz, 73

Lucie Arnaz attends Prime Video’s “Lucy And Desi” official FYC screening and panel on May 22, 2022 in Hollywood, California.Michael Kovac/Getty

Michael Kovac/Getty

Ball and Arnaz welcomed their first child, daughter Lucie Désirée Arnaz, on July 17, 1951.

The newborn arrived six weeks before Ball went to work onI Love Lucy. “My mom was a working mom,” Lucie said. “[My parents] were very busy. … I think from probably [from the] age of birth up through 7, they weren’t home a lot.”

Ultimately, Ball and Arnaz divorced in 1960, and though it was difficult in the beginning, the two remained close. “They loved each otheruntil the end,” Lucie told PEOPLE in 2022, referring to their deaths in 1989 and 1986, respectively.

Their love of show business rubbed off on their daughter.The Desert Sunreported that she began putting on shows in the garage at age 9, prompting Ball to build her a stage.

Lucie went on to star in high school productions ofOklahoma!,Alice in WonderlandandThe Boyfriend. She also got a taste of the limelight: At 15, she landed a role as her mother’s on-screen daughter, Kim Carter, on her television show,Here’s Lucy.

She accepted the part on the condition that theForever, Darlingstar would fire her if she wasn’t good. “I said, ‘[You’ve] got to help me save face,” Lucie toldPage Six. “And [my mom] agreed.”

WhenHere’s Lucyended in 1974, Lucie was ready to hit the stage. “I got … the first national company ofSeesaw,” she toldThe Desert Sun. “That led toAnnie Get Your GunandThey’re Playing Our Songand I never looked back. I pretty much stayed in the theater.”

Lucille Ball with her daughter Lucie Arnaz, circa 1978.Vinnie Zuffante/Getty

Vinnie Zuffante/Getty

Her role inNeil Simon’sThey’re Playing Our Songin 1979 also led to romance when she crossed paths with husband Laurence Luckinbill, who was concurrently starring in Simon’sChapter Two.

In June 1980, the pair got married, making Lucie a stepmom to Laurence’s two children from his previous marriage to Robin Strasser, Nick and Ben Luckinbill.

“I say I birthed three and I cooked and cleaned for five. All the kids are spectacular,” Lucie later joked toPassport Magazine.

Since becoming a mother, Lucie has continued to act: She was nominated for aGolden Globefor her performance in 1980’sThe Jazz Singer, and in 1985, she got her own comedy series,The Lucie Arnaz Show, which ran for one season.

Most recently, she starred inI Got the Job! Songs From My Musical Past.

Desiderio “Desi” Alberto Arnaz Jr., 72

Desi Arnaz Jr. attends The Paley Center for Media presents “Tropicana Nights: A Salute To The Music Of I Love Lucy” on December 9, 2011 in Beverly Hills, California.Beck Starr/FilmMagic

Beck Starr/FilmMagic

Ball and Arnaz welcomed their second child, son Desiderio “Desi” Alberto Arnaz Jr., on Jan. 19, 1953.

Contrary to popular belief, Lucy didn’t give birth to him on camera while filmingI Love Lucy. “I was actually born that Monday morning and the episode aired that night,” the musician clarified to theLos Angeles Timesin 1991, adding, “Many people thought that I was born on the air.”

“Because that cover was so widely seen, everyone thought I played Little Ricky, and that’s stuck with me throughout my life,” Desi Jr. toldthe outletin 2013. (Keith Thibodeaux played the part.)

Show or no show, Desi Jr. had an interest in music early on: Lucie told theTelevision Academy Foundationthat her brother started practicing the drums around the age of 4.

When his parents split up, Desi Jr. continued to spend summers with Desi Sr. at his home in Baja, Calif., according to theLos Angeles Times.

He also kept pursuing music. “He was in a rock and roll group when he was 11,” Lucie told the Television Academy Foundation.

The group was called Dino, Desi & Billy and Desi Jr. played the drums alongside Dean Martin’s son,Dean Paul Martin, and Billy Hinsche. They saw mainstream success with their single “I’m a Fool” and opened up for acts likeThe Beach Boys.

Ball’s son also dabbled in film, making cameos on shows likeThe Brady Bunchand costarring alongside his mother and sister as Craig Carter onHere’s Lucyfrom 1968 to 1972. His performance in 1971’sRed Sky at Morningearned him aGolden Globe.

Lucie Arnaz, Lucille Ball and Desi Arnaz Jr. attend a tribute to Lucille Ball held at the Museum of Broadcasting in New York City in April 1984.Vinnie Zuffante/Getty

Concurrently, Desi Jr. made headlines for his love life: When he was in his teens, he became a father when model Susan Callahan-Howe gave birth to their daughter Julia Arnaz. However, Desi. Jr. didn’t meet her until after she was 20 years old.

Other romances included a relationship with actress Patty Duke and a short-lived engagement toLiza Minnelli. ”I’m the one who talked marriage to them,” Lucy later said of the couple in a 1972 interview. “I said … ‘Don’t get married too soon.’ They were upset.’ ”

Desi Jr. and Minnelli called it quits before they made it down the aisle, and he moved on with actress Linda Purl, whom he married in 1979. They split a year later, according toBall of Fire: The Tumultuous Life and Comic Art of Lucille Ball.

Desi Jr. met the love of his life, Amy Laura Bargiel, in Nevada. “I liked Desi [Jr.] because he was very interested in the spiritual side of life,” she toldThe Washington Timesin 2002. “He liked my dance studio. He was so down-to-earth, plus I thought he was very handsome.”

The couple tied the knot on Oct. 8, 1987, and settled near Las Vegas. Together, the pair bought the Boulder Theatre, which they worked to restore. Desi Jr. also adopted Bargiel’s adult daughter, Haley.

“I’m happier now than I’ve ever been,” the drummer told the publication.

On the work front, Desi Jr. continued to act, playing the role of his father, Desi Sr., in 1992’sThe Mambo KingsalongsideAntonio Banderas. He also revived his band in 1998, with Ricci Martin filling in for his late brother Dean, who died in a plane crash the year prior, perThe Washington Times.

In 2002, theA Weddingactor earned anEmmy nominationas an executive producer with his sister Lucie on theI Love Lucy 50th Anniversary Special. He also served as an executive producer on 2021’sBeing the Ricardos.

Tragically, Amy died of cancer at the age of 63 on Jan. 23, 2015, after being diagnosed with a brain tumor.

Lucy Arnaz/Instagram

Desi Jr. made a rare social media appearance in a photo with his older sister that Lucie shared onInstagramin August 2024.

“Desi is alive and well, my friends- just likes to stay a bit ‘undercover,’ " Lucie wrote in her caption.

Julia Arnaz Massey, 54

Model Susan Callahan-Howe gave birth to Julia Arnaz Massey in 1970, but she didn’t have a relationship with her father, Desi Jr., until the early ‘90s after her grandparents Ball and Desi Sr. had died.

“We did a DNA test when I was 20 and it came back 99.97 percent that I was indeed his daughter,” Julia toldPage Sixin 2021. “Shortly after that my father and I started a beautiful relationship.”

She talked about her childhood toWGN Radio 720, revealing that her mother moved her to Connecticut after her relationship with Desi Jr. ended. “She really didn’t want me being raised in Hollywood,” Julia said.

By the time the two were reunited, Julia had become a mother herself, giving birth to daughter Desiree S. Anzalone in 1989, whom she welcomed with Mario Anzalone. (The couple later split.)

Afterward, Julia married but was widowed in 2012 when her husband Tim died in a swimming accident. As she told PEOPLE, “I’ve had myendurance with tragedy.” (She later remarried Albert Massey.)

In 2021,Page Sixreported that Julia’s mother, Susan, died due to COVID-19.

She also lost her daughter Desiree, whom she referred to as her “mini-me,” to breast cancer at the age of 31. “We were [best friends],” she told PEOPLE of her only child. “She was so beautiful. … She really, really reminded me a lot of my grandmother, more so than I.”

Julia toldPage Sixthat Desiree also had a relationship with her grandfather, Desi Jr., before her death. “He helped me very much [throughout] my life and helped my daughter through college.”

The bereaved mother told WGN Radio 720 that she has since joined a foundation called BCRF in honor of her daughter and was also named the Connecticut breast cancer spokesperson. “The thing that keeps me going is to just try and make awareness for this horrible disease,” Julia explained.

Haley Arnaz, 48

Desi Arnaz Jr. and his daughter Haley arrive at the Carl Wilson benefit concert October 14, 2001.Sebastian Artz/Getty

Sebastian Artz/Getty

Desi Jr.’s late wife, Amy, welcomed her daughter, Haley Arnaz, in December 1976 during a past relationship.

Amy married theJoyrideactor in 1987, and the three became a family, with Desi Jr. adopting Haley, perThe Washington Times.

As a child, Haley was a ballerina, performing duets like the Gran Pas de Deux inThe Nutcracker.

“I have always told Haley … that it is a virtue to learn to do one thing well in life,” Bargiel wrote in herblogin 2011. “Haley did that. She learned the art of Ballet — and she learned it well.”

Before her death, Amy wrote a series of children’s books about her daughter’s pastime of ballet calledLittle Haley Stories.

However, there is little known about Haley’s adult life as she largely stays out of the limelight. She was last seen on the red carpet in 2001 when she attended a Carl Wilson benefit concern with her parents.

Simon Thomas Luckinbill, 44

Lucie Arnaz and her son Simon Luckinbill.Lucie Arnaz Instagram

Lucie Arnaz Instagram

Lucie and Laurence celebrated the arrival of their first child together, son Simon Thomas Luckinbill, on Dec. 10, 1980.

She later toldCape Cod Timesthat becoming a mother was her “proudest moment.”

Born in Los Angeles, he moved to Katonah, New York, early on. “We made a decision a long time ago to back off from big show business because of the children,” Laurence toldThe Desert Sunin 2018 of the family’s move. “We … lived in the country away from the city.”

Like his parents, Simon kept himself busy with creative pursuits, studying music, drums, percussion, poetry and nutrition. He also discovered art as an outlet.

“I found I had a passion for using color, texture and a hint of fantasy to express myself,” he toldCoachella Valley Weeklyin 2016. “I started looking at painting as [a] way of self-expression. I find art to be cathartic. I tell stories with my work. … My art is about me.”

Simon held his first show in 2014 at the Archangel Gallery in Palm Springs, Calif., where he reportedly sold over half of his paintings in 90 minutes. In 2016, he held his second show in Coachella Valley. He toldCV Weeklythat he had drawn inspiration from “music, nature, vision quests, and, as a Christian, of course, God.”

Lucie acknowledged her son’s artistic side while posting a sweet tribute onInstagramfor his milestone 40th birthday in 2020.

“You are a true sprite with a beautiful heart and a brilliant eye for color and art expression,” she captioned photos of him. “I love you, my son. Thank you for making me a Mommie!”

Joseph Henry Luckinbill, 43

Joseph Luckinbill and Lucie Arnaz attend The Paley Center for Media’s Tribute To Hispanic Achievements in Television on May 18, 2016 in New York City.Santiago Felipe/Getty

Santiago Felipe/Getty

Lucie and Laurence welcomed their second child together, Joseph Henry Luckinbill, on Dec. 31, 1981.

Like Desi Jr., Joseph showed an early inclination for music. Lucie spoke about his love for one instrument in particular toArlene Herson, saying, “I have a son whose passion is playing guitar. He just lives to play the guitar.”

According toLinkedIn, Joseph earned a bachelor’s degree in music from Shenandoah University. After graduation, he made a career out of his passion, teaching music at various shops and schools, as well as online. In addition, Joseph built a production studio, Fathom Studios, where he works as the head engineer.

In 2008, the musician performed inLuLu’s Back in Townon Broadway at Birdland alongside his mother and little sister Kate.

He also performs his own music: Per LinkedIn, Joseph plays in a progressive funk band calledPlasmand has six albums under his belt.

On June 26, 2019, Joseph took on a brand new title of “dad,” alongside his partner, Christa Messina. Lucie announced the news on herFacebookpage, writing, “Proud papa, Joe Luckinbill, with our granddaughter, his first child, Eliza Grace!”

His family grew again with the addition of their son, George Anthony, on April 19, 2021. Lucie enjoys posting photos of themon Instagram.

According to LinkedIn, Joseph aims to receive his master’s degree in music production from Berklee College of Music in June 2024.

Katharine “Kate” Désirée Luckinbill-Conner, 40

Katharine “Kate” Arnaz and Lucie Arnaz arrive at opening night of “The Little Mermaid” on Broadway on January 10, 2008 in New York City.Janette Pellegrini/WireImage

Janette Pellegrini/WireImage

Katharine “Kate” Désirée Luckinbill arrived to parents Lucie and Laurence on Jan. 11, 1985.

As a child, Kate remembers watchingInspector Gadgetwith her famous grandmother. “She would give me Oreos and milk and just sit behind me and play backgammon, and just keep me company,” Lucie’s youngest child told theTodayshowin 2021.

Kate elaborated on her grandmother’s penchant for putting her hair in curlers and letting her fall asleep in her giant bed. “I guess she was really happy to have another little girl,” she said.

Growing up, Lucie and Kate were incredibly close. “We had a real mom-daughter ‘friend’ relationship,” the mom of three told theCourier-Postin 2016. “We did things together, we went places together.”

She recalled taking Kate on the road with her. “I swear, her first two words were ‘room service,’ ” Lucie joked toThe Sun Sentinelin 1987.

When she got older, Kate followed her parents into acting, starring in a production ofDraculain 2010, as well as titles such asCollege Debtsin 2015.

According to her biography onDesilu, Too, which manages the use of images, likeness and the voices of Desi and Lucy Arnaz, Kate has also worked in recruitment for companies such as Amazon, Snapchat and Microsoft. She is currently the creative director and the curator of new licensing at Desilu, Too.

In May 2019, Kate gave birth toJeffrey Dodge Conner, with whom she toldTodayshe now watches Inspector Gadget, shares Oreos and plays Backgammon. ​​”I tell him that this is our Nana time,” she said.

source: people.com