Heidi Montag and Spencer Pratt's Relationship Timeline

Mar. 15, 2025

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Heidi MontagandSpencer Pratttied the knot in2009and are still going strong.

The pair met in 2006 at a nightclub while Montag was filmingThe Hills, and it was love at first sight for the reality star. “I pretty much told everyone I was going to marry him and that I loved him. [Everyone] thought I was crazy,” she toldVICEin 2016.

“When we started, it felt like everyone was trying to break us up, or they thought we were together to be famous,” Pratttold PEOPLEin an exclusive interview in 2019. “But here we are, 10 years later. The [best] thing we ever did is be together.”

In January 2025, Heidi and Spencerlost their homein the devastating Los Angeles wildfires. “I just really want to go home,” Heidi said through tears in aTikTok video. “I’m so homesick.”

From their early beginnings onThe Hillsto walking down the aisle (twice) and having kids together, here’s everything to know about Heidi Montag and Spencer Pratt’s relationship.

Early 2006: Heidi Montag and Spencer Pratt meet

Montag and Pratt first locked eyes at the now-closed L.A. club Privilege, which was located on theSunset Stripin West Hollywood. Pratt had been visiting the club with his friendBrody Jenner, looking for a way to get a role onThe Hills.

“I was like cartoon goo-goo eyes, heart falling out of my head,” Montag recalled of their first meeting during aninterview with Vice.

Pratt had also fallen for Montag and he began to pursue her. Soon after, he joined Montag onThe Hillsand the two began crafting up dramatic plot lines to turn the attention away from protagonistLauren Conradand onto “Speidi,” their self-dubbed couple name.

“I was treating the show like a producer because I literally just made a show on Fox,” Pratt explained to Vice. “I didn’t know how to be on-camera talent.”

August 2007: Spencer Pratt gives Heidi Montag a promise ring

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“… they kinda like jacked it from us and turned a promise ring scene into an engagement ring, and it kind of snowballed from there,” Pratt toldCosmopolitanin 2016. “Technically, that was a promise ring.”

November 2008: Heidi Montag and Spencer Pratt elope in Mexico

During a 2008 trip to Cabo San Lucas, Mexico, Montag and Pratttied the knot.

“I was just putting it out there, how easy it would be with no drama,” Pratt shared withUs Weekly. “It was exactly the wedding I wanted.”

“I am surprised and not surprised at the same time,” theirHillscostarAudrina Patridgetold PEOPLE. “They obviously adore each other and are very committed to one another. Heidi and Spencer seem like the types who would want a lavish wedding full of friends and family. I do think it’s very romantic that they eloped.”

December 2008: Rumors circulate that Heidi Montag and Spencer Pratt faked their elopement

When a clip fromThe Hillswas released of Montag and Prattgetting married in a courthouse, fans speculated if the previous month’selopementwas even real.

While speaking toRyan Seacrestin a segment that aired on KISS-FM’sOn Air with Ryan Seacrest, Pratt addressed the controversy and said of the legal documents, “We checked the confidentiality box, so good luck people [in finding out].”

April 25, 2009: Heidi Montag and Spencer Pratt get married for a second time

June 2009: Heidi Montag and Spencer Pratt appear onI’m a Celebrity … Get Me Out of Here!

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Montag and Pratt tried their hands at adifferent reality show, appearing on NBC’s I’m a Celebrity… Get Me Out of Here! in its 2009 season.

After several spats with their fellow campmates and refusal to do a challenge, the pair tried to quit the game three times. However, they returned and then exited the jungle for good when Montag got sick and had to go to the hospital.

March 10, 2010: Heidi Montag fires Spencer Prattas her manager

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Shortly after meeting in 2006, Montag hired Pratt as her manager. However, she fired him from the position in March 2010.

“No longer is my husband the face of my business or managing my career,” Montag told PEOPLE at the time. “I am going to have [Malibu-based psychic] Aiden Chase help manage my new life and career in a very different and positive way with light and love. The time for change is now. Never mix business and pleasure. We are no longer Speidi but Spencer and Heidi.”

June 8, 2010: Heidi Montag and Spencer Pratt file for separation

In June 2010, Montag and Pratt filed for separation.

“There are so many lies out there about me and I just needed space — even away from my husband,” Montag told PEOPLE, saying she needed “to concentrate” on herself. Montag then moved in with her friend, Jen Bunney.

July 30, 2010: Heidi Montag files for divorce and Spencer Pratt claims the marriage was fake

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Several weeks after their initial separation, the couple officially filed fordivorce.

“Heidi has amended her petition for separation and today has filed a petition for dissolution of marriage from Spencer Pratt,” Montag’s lawyer Jodeane Farrelltold PEOPLEat the time. “The couple has agreed they would like their divorce to be finalized in a timely manner in an out-of-court settlement. Both parties are amicable with each other and over the possibility of finalizing their divorce.”

August 2010: Heidi Montag and Spencer Pratt spend time together in Costa Rica

Despite filing for divorce,the couple were spotted in Costa Ricain August.

“I had to bring the puppies down and help them move in,” Pratt explained to PEOPLE. “[Heidi] thought I was going to leave, but I’m not. I didn’t want to get divorced I have nothing in Malibu, I’m homeless, I’m nothing without her.”

September 30, 2010: Heidi Montag and Spencer Pratt get back together

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In September, Montag and Pratt called off the divorce, with the couple exclusivelytelling PEOPLE, “We are back together trying to make things work.” The reality stars continued, referencing their brief move to Costa Rica, saying, “[Costa Rica] really put things in perspective. We do love each other and realized we do want to spend the rest of our lives together.”

Montag’s attorney added, “After spending time together over these past several months Heidi and Spencer have decided to reconcile.”

November 14, 2010: Heidi Montag and Spencer Pratt renew their wedding vows

Aftercalling off the divorce, Montag and Prattrenewed their wedding vowsat a beachfront house in Carpinteria, California.

In 2014, it was revealed that Montag and Pratt would appear on WE tv’sMarriage Boot Camp Reality Stars, which was set to premiere in 2015.

2016: Heidi Montag and Spencer Pratt open up to PEOPLE about spending their fortune fromThe Hills

Montag said of her splurges, “I was kind of playing house. I felt like I was someone I wasn’t. We had business managers who told us to stop spending but we acted like we knew what we were doing.”

Over the years, the couple had spent nearly their entire fortune on a luxury wardrobe, full staff, expensive dinners, and Pratt’s crystal collection. “I was feeling so alone and defeated,” she shared. “Everyone else on our cast had houses and we had nothing to show for what we’d done. I was like, the haters were right! It was sad.”

They eventually moved into Pratt’s parents' vacation home in Santa Barbara to live rent-free, with Pratt telling PEOPLE, “We haven’t been out to a fancy dinner since our anniversary. If Heidi’s not cooking, we’re eating tacos.”

“Life is so short,” Montag added. “And what matters is being happy with family and marriage and with personal progress. We’re in a really good place.”

January 2017: Heidi Montag and Spencer Pratt appear onCelebrity Big Brotherfor a second time

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Montag and Pratt first appeared on the U.K. version ofCelebrity Big Brotherin 2013, where they competed as a single entity and finished as the runners-up. The couple entered the house for a second time in 2017 for the “All Stars vs New Stars” edition of the show. However, they were evicted from the house on the 25th day.

On Oct. 1, 2017, the couplewelcomed their son, Gunner Stone, weighing 6 lbs., 12 oz. and measuring 19 in. long.

August 20, 2018: Heidi Montag and Spencer Pratt join a reboot ofThe Hills

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In thefirst trailer, Montag and Pratt could be seen hiking with their then-19-month-old son, Gunner.

“I love watching you be a mom,” Pratt said to Montag in the clip.

After two seasons,The Hills: New Beginningswascanceledin January 2022.

April 25, 2021: Heidi Montag and Spencer Pratt commemorate their 12th wedding anniversary with sweet Instagram posts

In honor of their 12th anniversary, Montag and Pratt posted sweet throwback photos from their wedding day to their respective Instagram accounts.

“HAPPY 12 YEAR ANNIVERSARY @heidimontag. What an incredible journey it’s been! My only regret is not proposing to you the night we met two years before this photo was taken!” Pratt captionedhis post.

August 12, 2021: Heidi Montag undergoes surgery to better her chances of conceiving

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“I was feeling nervous last night about it, but I’m excited today,” Montag said in the video before entering the hospital. “And I’m hoping that the surgery works and that this is the only reason I haven’t been able to get pregnant.”

March 10, 2022: Heidi Montag tries a unique method of boosting fertility

In March 2022, Montag was spottedchewing on a raw bison heartwhile out and about in Los Angeles. The reality star explained to PEOPLE that she was trying new things to help with her fertility issues.

“I love trying new things! I’ve always been very interested in various types of diets,” she said. “When you think about where the most nutrients are that are bio available to humans without toxins, organs are very nutritious parts of animals. Culturally organs are a critical part. Eating raw liver is going to preserve as many nutrients as possible.”

She added that she had been trying to get pregnant with a second child “for over a year and a half.”

“I’m willing to try different things,” she shared. “It’s a great source of nutrients! I have felt incredible on this diet. A lot more energy, clarity, increased libido, and overall improvement on chronic pain I have had.”

June 1, 2022: Heidi Montag and Spencer Pratt announce their second pregnancy

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Montag shared the news on herInstagram account, posting a photo carousel that included a sweet snap of Gunner cradling his mom’s bump.

“My heart is overflowing with joy! I’m excited to share that I am pregnant! I have been hoping and praying for this moment for so long!” Montag captioned the post. “Once I saw the word ‘pregnant’ I started hysterically crying, overwhelmed with joy and shock and I sprinted upstairs to show Spencer. I couldn’t believe I was pregnant again!”

A month later, the couple revealed that Gunnerwould be getting a little brother. They shared the exciting news during an exclusive video withEntertainment Tonight, and Montag admitted she was not anticipating another boy.

“My whole intuition is off,” she said in the video. “Growing up I always wanted boys and then recently, I kinda started thinking, I don’t know, I kinda want a girl and having one of each.” She noted that Gunner really wanted a brother, though, and that she wanted whatever “would be the best for him and his life.”

“I’m so excited for Gunner to have a sibling,” Montag said. “He loves babies, he’s been asking me for a sibling for so long. So to have this new love and this new relationship that he gets to have and that we all get to have is amazing.”

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October 4, 2022: Heidi Montag and Spencer Pratt take family photos with son Gunner

The Pratt family donned matching leather jackets for afamily photo shoot, which also served as Montag’s second maternity shoot.

November 17, 2022: Spencer Pratt and Heidi Montag welcome their second child

Earlier in the day, Montag, who was experiencing constant contractions, shared the painful ride to the hospital on her Instagram Story.

The following morning, Pratt shared her second son’s name. “Ryker Pratt,” Montag Pratt wrote in aSnapchat post, covering the newborn’s face with a blue heart emoji.

April 25, 2023: Spencer Pratt and Heidi Montag celebrate their 14th wedding anniversary

In honor of their special day, Montag shared a throwback photo from the couple’s wedding on her Instagram Story.

“Happy 14 year anniversary @spencerpratt.It’s been a dream,” she wrote alongside the image.

June 8, 2023: Heidi Montag and Spencer Pratt celebrate their son’s preschool graduation

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Pratt showed off pictures of the ceremony on his Instagram Story, including one cute snap of Gunner on stage.

July 31, 2023: Heidi Montag and Spencer Pratt announce their new podcast

During an interview with PEOPLE, Montag and Pratt revealed the name of their new podcast —Speidi’s 16th Minute.

“Heidi and I have always wanted to do a MasterClass on being famous,” Spencer said. “But since their people never call us back, we’re taking it to this podcast.”

October 10, 2024: Heidi Montag and Spencer Pratt attend Reality Stars of the Year event in Los Angeles

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January 8, 2025: Heidi Montag and Spencer Pratt lose their home in L.A. wildfires

Montag and Pratt’shome was destroyed in the L.A. wildfiresthat decimated the Pacific Palisades.

“The one positive sign i saw as our house burned down was ours sons bedburned in the shape of a heart,” the dad of two wrote onInstagram. “A sign of how much love was in this house so thankful for all the years and memories there with our family.”

To support the couple in crisis, fans started a social media campaign to purchase Montag’s re-releasedSuperficialalbumand its tracks on iTunes. The record, which was initially released in 2010, has since hit No. 1 on the iTunes charts.

source: people.com