Man Wants to Break Up His Brother's Engagement Because He Thinks He's 'Settling' for a Woman Who Is the 'Worst'

Mar. 15, 2025

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A man wants to end his brother’s engagement.

The groom-to-be has been dating his fiancée for two-and-a-half years. His brother describes her as the “WOAT,” meaning “Worst of All Time.”

“Nobody in the family has anything good to say about her,” he wrote. “In the past, he always had stable relationships with girls we really enjoyed. But now he’s getting older, his friends are getting engaged and it seems like he’s settling and feeling pressure.”

The man claimed that the newly engaged couple is “always arguing,” and that the bride-to-be is forcing her fiancé to act out of character, citing him having “multiple job changes” and “making less time for family” as examples.

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The advice-seeker wants to voice his family’s concerns to his brother, but is unsure if it would be “too drastic” to suggest marriage would be a “bad idea.”

“I was going to say I support him if he can find three redeeming qualities in her because none of us can find one,” he concluded.

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She advised that the man suggest premarital counseling in hopes of improving his younger brother’s relationship before he ties the knot.

source: people.com