Tom Holland and Zendaya attend SiriusXM’s Town Hall with the cast of Spider-Man: No Way Home on December 10, 2021 in New York City.Photo: Cindy Ord/Getty
Tom HollandandZendaya’s relationship may have started with an on-screen romance, but the couple is getting ready to walk down the aisle in real life.
TMZwas the first to report thatHolland and Zendaya are engagedafter theChallengersstar appeared on the red carpet at the2025 Golden Globeswearing what appeared to be a diamond ring on her left hand.
When their romance first began, the costars entangled themselves in a web of rumors for years after being cast alongside each other inSpider-Man: Homecomingin 2016. However, it wasn’t until five years later that the couple confirmed their relationship.
During the interim period, Holland and Zendaya stressed in various interviews and social media posts that they were just really good friends — but although their relationship was supposedly platonic, their chemistry was undeniable.
Fast forward to 2019, the film franchise’s fans were sent into a frenzy following the first on-screen kiss shared between Holland’s Spider-Man and Zendaya’s MJ inSpider-Man: Far From Home.
Just a few months later, that shared moment transformed into something more than just acting — when they werespotted kissing in their carin July 2021, confirming the pair’s real-life love story.
Since then, Holland and Zendaya have strived to keep a low-profile relationship and avoid excessive PDA. This doesn’t mean that the two don’t show their love for each other in other ways, though, as they never fail to support each other on social media and at public events.
From costars to lovers, keep scrolling to see a complete breakdown of Zendaya and Holland’s sweet relationship timeline.
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On July 10, 2016, the two were cast inSpider-Man: Homecomingand began to slowly pop up on each other’s Instagram feeds.
Holland shared a photo of the two alongside another friend enjoying a dip in the pool that summer, with the caption, “Summer Sunday’s.”
On Nov. 9, 2016, Zendaya sharedtheir dual cover story fromThe Hollywood Reporterwhere they were listed among the “Next Gen 2016.”
The two actors were dressed to the nines with Zendaya in a gown and Holland in a black suit.
“Amidst all the chaos and sadness…this one good thing did happen to me today. Honored to share it with the very best…Spider-Man himself,” she wrote in the caption.
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After months of filming together, appearing on each other’s Instagrams, and walking the same red carpets, rumors started to swirl surrounding the pair’s relationship status — and on July 13, 2017, a source told PEOPLE Holland and Zendaya were romantically involved.
“They started seeing each otherwhile they were filmingSpider-Man,” said the insider. “They’ve been super careful to keep it private and out of the public eye but they’ve gone on vacations with each other and try and spend as much time as possible with one another.”
Added another source, “They’re both really ambitious and they challenge each other — but, most importantly, they make each other crack up. They seem to have a really similar sense of humor and love joking around together. They have great banter back and forth.”
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Shortly before the July 7 premiere ofSpider-Man: Homecoming, Holland told PEOPLE how Zendaya had helped him navigate the spotlight. “We are like the best of friends. She’s so great and amazing,” he said of the actress.
“I’m a little worried [about dealing with fame … but] Zendaya is super famous and she’s been through this and I just call her up and say, ‘How do I manage being famous?’ I’m very glad I have a friend like her,” he added.
In August 2017, theEuphoriastar toldVarietyshe and Holland were not dating. “We are friends,” she said. “He’s a great dude. He’s literally one of my best friends. This past how many months we’ve had to do press tours together. There’s very few people that will understand what that’s like at 20 years old.”
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The two remained close in betweenSpider-Manfilms, with Holland celebrating Zendaya’s debut at the Met Gala in May 2018.
“All hail the queen. Killing it mate,“he wrotealongside a photo of her dressed as Joan of Arc on the red carpet.
Holland also shared a cheeky moment on Instagram in May 2019 when he posted a photo of himself, Zendaya, and theirSpider-Mancostar Jacob Batalon while at Disneyland for a photocall to promote the film.
Holland wrote back, “Thanks @zendaya for making me aware of my obvious blunder” before fixing the tag.
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ConsideringSpider-Man: Far From Homewas rehearsed and filmed months prior to its release date, we could assume that the pair have smooched many times before, but it wasn’t until the movie hit theaters on June 26, 2019, that we saw the two kiss for the first time.
Holland and Zendaya even opened up during aSirius XM Town Hallpanel, discussing their height difference and whether or not it affected their kiss — which Holland described as a “stupid assumption.”
“[Zendaya’s] not that much taller,” he added. “It’s not like, people say like, ‘How do you guys kiss? It must have been so difficult.’ "
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TheSpider-Man: No Way Homecostars sparked dating rumors yet again when they were spotted sharing a steamy smooch inside a car on July 2, 2021.
The pair has been known to keep their personal lives low-key, and have since then opened up about their feelings toward dating in the public eye.
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In celebration of Zendaya’s 25th birthday on September 1, Holland posted a cozy mirror selfie of the two together, paired with a sweet caption.
“My MJ, have the happiest of birthdays. Gimme a call when you’re [sp] up xxx,” he captioned the shot, which shows him in his Spider-Man suit with Zendaya close behind him as she takes the picture with a camera.
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During an interview withGQin November 2021, Holland briefly opened up about his desire to keep his romantic life private in the public eye.
“One of the downsides of our fame is that privacy isn’t really in our control anymore, and a moment that you think is between two people that love each other very much is now a moment that is shared with the entire world,” Holland told the outlet.
Zendaya told the magazine that having others get a glimpse at her personal life is both “confusing and invasive.”
“The equal sentiment [we both share] is just that when you really love and care about somebody, some moments or things, you wish were your own,” the actress explained to the outlet. “I think loving someone is a sacred thing and a special thing and something that you want to deal with and go through and experience and enjoy amongst the two people that love each other.”
Right beforeSpider-Man: No Way Homehit theaters, Zendaya shared a sentimental post dedicated to Holland on December 15.
The first photo showed theSpider-Manactor suspended from cables sporting the iconic red and blue Spider-Man suit with a swipe to a throwback photo of Holland dressed as the character from when he was a kid.
“My Spider-Man, I’m so proud of you,“Zendaya wrote in the caption. “Some things never change and good thing♥️.”
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Zendaya and Holland were capturedleaving the premiere of the actor’s most recent film,Uncharted, hand-in-hand on Feb. 16, 2022.
For the evening out, Holland donned a light gray suit and black turtle neck, matched with black boots. Zendaya stepped out in a black shirt dress, accessorized with a black belt with a gold buckle and black heels.
While playing with puppies during aBuzzfeedinterview, theUncharted starrevealed that he would like to guest star on the HBO series.
Holland added, “I would love to guest star or just be an extra in it. Or maybe I am and you just don’t know.”
DuringEuphoria’s For Your Consideration event on April 20, Zendaya opened up toEntertainment Tonightabout the role her then-boyfriend Holland plays in helping to “free” her up from her role on the HBO show.
“I think it’sgreat to have that support and love around you, because you need that,” Zendaya toldETwhen asked about how Holland “pulls her out of the dark moments as Rue.”
“This isn’t an easy job, so it’s good to have that to free you up from it every now and then,” she added.
During a day date, the pair were spotted holding hands andperusing art at the Louvre. Zendaya looked chic in a button-down shirt dress, while Holland looked handsome in a striped sweater and black slacks.
The couple traveled to Mumbai for the opening of the Nita Mukesh Ambani Cultural Centre. However, Holland and Zendaya walked the event’s red carpet separately.
TheEuphoriastar and her beau were laterspotted holding handsas they departed the country.
Of course, the R&B star didn’t let the evening end before shouting out the pair.
“Zendaya is in the house, ladies and gentlemen,“Ushersaid to the crowd. “Tom Holland is in the house, ladies and gentlemen.”
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The couplewatched the Golden State Warriors defeat the Los Angeles Lakersin game 2 of the NBA playoffs. Zendaya, who was photographed enjoying a box of popcorn, and her beau were all smiles at the sporting event.
In an interview withThe Hollywood Reporter, Holland spoke about how he and Zendaya prefer to keep the details of their relationship relatively private.
“Our relationship is something that we are incredibly protective of and we want to keep as sacred as possible,” the actor explained. “We don’t think that we owe it to anyone, it’s our thing, and it has nothing to do with our careers.”
“I fixed my girlfriend’s door oncereally early on in our relationship,” he said. “I was hanging out at her house and her door was broken. I was like, ‘I’m gonna fix that door for you.’ And now we’re in love.”
On an episode ofOn Purpose with Jay Shetty,Holland shared that his relationship with Zendaya is what he holds “most sacred.”
“I don’t talk about it. I try my best to keep it as private as possible. We both feel very strongly that that is the healthiest way to move on as a couple,” he said, adding that he feels most like himself when he’s with theEuphoriastar.
Zendaya has accepted that her relationship with Holland is of public interest — but she still craves a life where paparazzi aren’t tracking their every move.
“I can’tnotbe a person and live my life and love the person I love,” she toldElle. “You can’t hide. That’s not fun either. I am navigating it more than ever now.”
TheEuphoriastar added that she’s very selective about what she chooses to share with her fans and the media.
“It’s about protecting the peaceand letting things be your own but also not being afraid to exist,” she said.
While talking toExtraat the 2024Critics Choice Awards, Holland said that he and Zendaya rewatch their 2017 movie,Spider-Man: Homecoming, to “relive” that time in their lives.
“Zendaya and I will, every now and then, watchSpider-Man 1and reminisce about being 19 and making those movies again,” he said. “I love those movies, andI love savoring those moments, so I try not to watch them as often as I would maybe like to because it’s so special. It’s such a luxury, such a gift to be able to sit down and sort of relive your youth.”
In a clip fromBuzzfeed’s puppy interview, Zendaya was asked who from theDunecast has the most “rizz.” But while she admitted that she believes “everybody’s got their own,” she chose topraise Hollandfor his skills instead of picking one of her costars, saying that he’s “naturally good” at talking to people.
“I think someone who has beautiful charisma, not on theDunecast, but personally works for me, is Mr. Tom Holland.” she said. “I’m more shy and kind of quiet. So it takes a bit more to pull me out of my shell. But he’s great at just talking to people, getting to know people.”
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The couple were spectators at theBNP Paribas Open finalsin Indian Wells, California. During the match, Zendaya and Holland were spotted singing along toWhitney Houston’s “I Wanna Dance with Somebody,” which was being played over the stadium speakers.
As Holland wrapped up his run as Romeo in London’s West End production ofRomeo & Juliet,Zendaya was photographed arriving at the Duke of York Theatre,carrying a bouquet of flowersahead of his final show.
“If something breaks in Zendaya’s house, I take huge pride in fixing it,” he said. “The other day, she has this guest room, which was … it wasn’t the greatest room, like it needed some love.”
Holland continued, “I built her these cupboards and put a new wardrobe up for her and fitted it in so it looked like it was part of the wall. And I was very proud of myself.”
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Zendaya joined Holland at thelaunch of his non-alcoholic drink brand, Bero, in New York City. The couple coordinated in burgundy ensembles for the special event at Nine Orchard.
While talking toMen’s Healthfor the magazine’s January-February 2025 cover, Holland said there’s a reason he avoids joining Zendaya on the red carpet at her premieres.
“Becauseit’s not my moment, it’s her moment, and if we go together, it’s about us,” he said.
Zendaya at the Golden Globes in January 2025.Michael Buckner/GG2025/Penske Media via Getty
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Engagement rumors began to swirl after Zendaya walked the Golden Globes red carpet wearing amassive diamond on her left ring finger. She also debuted a"t” tattooon her ribcage that fans believe is dedicated to Holland.
Less than 24 hours after Zendaya walked the Golden Globes red carpet, PEOPLE confirmed that she and Holland are engaged. TMZ was the first to report the news, with a source telling the outlet that Holland had proposed between the Christmas and New Year’s holidays at one of Zendaya’s family homes.
source: people.com